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Why Introvert Hangovers Are Real and All Fine


Have you felt exhausted after attending any social event such as a wedding or a get-together, so much so that the very next day you feel like being cooped up in your room to reboot yourself? Maybe postpone a few events for the next month, right? If this has happened to you more than once, then, my friend, you experience introvert hangovers. Although the idea of an introvert hangover is not new, it has recently received increasing attention due to increased awareness of introversion and the need for self-care. For introverts, it's critical to comprehend that their desire for isolation and quiet is a legitimate and essential component of their identity.


The phrase "introvert hangover" refers to the fatigue and depletion that introverts may feel after spending a lot of time in social settings or big groups. It is a common word used to explain the psychological and physical toll that social engagement may have on introverts rather than a medical term.


Extroverts get their energy from social situations and engaging with people, whereas introverts get their energy from being by themselves and reflecting. Although they may feel exhausted after social encounters and require time alone to recover their energy, introverts are not always timid or antisocial. Physical tiredness, headaches, and irritation are just a few of the ways introvert hangovers may appear. Moreover, introverts may feel emotionally exhausted, which can cause trouble focusing, mood swings, and increased worry.


The overstimulation that might happen in social circumstances is one of the key causes of introvert hangovers. Since they may easily become overpowering and taxing, crowds, bright lights, and commotion are stimuli that introverts are more sensitive to. Also, it can be psychologically and emotionally draining for introverts to feel pressured to live up to societal norms and expectations.


It's critical for introverts to emphasize self-care and establish limits for their social contacts in order to prevent introvert hangover. To do this, they could schedule some alone time after social gatherings, restrict their time in large groups, and let their friends and family members know what they need.


It's crucial for introverts to understand that their need for solitude is a strength rather than a flaw. Since they tend to be introspective, introverts frequently possess many admirable traits including creativity, intelligence, and empathy. There are various things you may take to ease or relieve the symptoms of an introvert hangover if you are one. This includes getting enough sleep and rest, doing things that make you happy and fulfilled, and engaging in mindfulness and self-reflection exercises.



In addition, it is critical to look for assistance from others, including friends, family, and mental health professionals. By sharing your thoughts and feelings with someone, you might gain perspective and feel less isolated in your challenges. So, the next time you feel drained by a social gathering, do not be overwhelmed by it; just take a mini-exile, cloister up at home, and savor the me-time, to get ready to face the world with a brighter you!




3 Comments


Smita Milind
Smita Milind
Apr 08, 2023

This is so relatable, beautifully written ma’am 👍

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Lavanya Nair
Lavanya Nair
Apr 12, 2023
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Thank you so much!❤️

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Moony
Moony
Apr 07, 2023

Relatable! Didn't know this was a thing, even though I've experienced it so often ;)

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